C'est La Vie

2008-11-04 10:14:29 南方都市报网络版
　　本月1日，马士基信息处理（广东）有限公司（GSC）向员工发布内部公文宣布决定关闭广州的中心，该中心700多员工将在2009年上半年前被逐步遣散或转移。该中心员工透露，公司曾表示将在今天向员工发出关于赔偿及遣散的文件。
　　受航运业务影响裁员
　　这是继年初马士基全球裁员3000人以来马士基的又一裁员大动作，年初裁员主要是针对中层管理人员，这次则牵涉广州信息处理中心的700名员工。11月1日，马士基广州信息处理中心通过内部邮件向公司全体员工发出《GlobalServiceCentreinGuangzhouclosingdown》（《将关闭位于广州的全球服务中心》），昨日为止，公司员工已通过博客、邮件及论坛向外界四处散播“失业”消息。
　　在这份内部文件中提到，关闭广州中心的工作将在2009年上半年前完成，关闭原因主要为全球信息处理中心组织已在执行核心流程方面效率越来越高，以及2008年马士基航运公司和马士基物流的业务量增长慢于预期。全球信息处理中心主管SorenBrandt在文件中指，“关闭广州中心基于包括成本考虑在内的全面评估所做的商业性决策。”
　　马士基航运广州未裁员
　　受公司关闭影响，700员工将在明年6月前完成遣散。公司通过文件告诉员工，在深圳的信息处理中心仍有100多个职位空缺，将优先考虑安排广州中心的员工就职，并将通过专业的法律服务为员工找新工作提供帮助，离开的员工将根据中国法律获得补偿。
　　在公司工作一年多，广州人林小姐昨日仍上班，她表示因为深圳生活成本高及自己是广州本地人，将不考虑转移到深圳工作。林小姐称，公司已透露将在半年内逐步完成遣散工作并在11月4日发放补偿细则文件。她表示现在公司内难见一人有笑容。
　　记者从马士基航运公司广州公司员工处了解到，裁员风暴并未波及这里，员工没收到任何关于裁员的消息。
　　■失业日记
　　“想哭的，已经哭出来的，欲哭无泪的”
　　正式在内部官方网站公布裁员信息的前一天（10月31日），马士基广州信息处理中心曾分批组织所有员工到景星酒店参加会议，通知员工公司即将关闭的消息。记者查阅网络发现，多名该公司员工在网络上记载了10月31日集体失业的一日（摘录）：
　　“第一批开会的同事带了个所有打工仔都不想听到的坏消息：我们文件中心要执笠（倒闭）！！！简直系噩耗～～在马士基文件中心服务了5年。我有一种想哭又哭不出来的感觉，接下来嘅路，我都不知道该怎么走。”
　　“同事们表情各异：想哭的，已经哭出来的，欲哭无泪的；僵硬的，眼神呆滞的，双眼紧闭的；叹气的，小声讨论的，异常兴奋的……这么多不同的表情，大多只反映了同一个心情：我的公司要倒闭了！我要失业了！”
　　“想象过无数次自己离开马士基的情景，但是万万没想象到结果会是这样。从来不觉得金融海啸对我们生活会产生怎样的影响，今天，七百几号人终于齐齐感受到灾难的到来。”
　　■资料
　　全球500强马士基
A.P.莫勒-马士基集团成立于1904年，总部位于丹麦哥本哈根，全球雇员超过6万人，在125个国家设有300个以上的分公司，为全球500强企业。集团属下的马士基海陆集团拥有全球最大的船队，以快捷、准时的服务在船运业享有盛誉。除此之外，集团还拥有各种不同专业公司，业务涉及物流、原油开采及运输、药品制造、空运、IT、造船、码头管理、超市等等。
　　马士基信息处理（广东）有限公司是马士基集团全资拥有并直接管理的数据、文件处理中心之一。现有员工已超过700人，主要承接集团内位于世界各地的船务、物流公司及码头数据、文件处理业务。
2008年1月9日，马士基集团在哥本哈根总部发出一份声明，表示决定在今年4月底前在集装箱航运部分裁减2000至3000名员工，主要裁减对象是中级行政管理人员，这是该集团成立104年以来最大规模的一次裁员行动，轰动整个国际航运市场。

How To Get More Comfortable Talking To Strange Girls

      In other places on this site I mention that trying to get girls by approaching strangers isn't always the most efficient way to go. But I do think it's a valuable skill overall, and lots of guys want to know how to do it, so here's my take:

Talking to strange women is so hard because it's totally scary and uncomfortable, but also completely optional and avoidable. That makes it very easy to wimp out at the last moment as you get closer and closer to making the approach and your anxiety raises to intolerable levels. There's a definite 'barrier' that you have to push through to finally make the move.

Let me say that I don't believe you can ever cure your fear of women once and for all. I think the best you can do is get comfortable with it to the point where the fear is greatly muted, or reduced enough to easily push through. Guys who aren't nervous around women tend to naturally be like that or they've macked on chicks so much the jitters have been pushed far into the background. It's like exercise though. If you slack off the nerves will come back and you have to get used to them again, though more easily than before.

I also don't believe you can eliminate the nerves that come with talking to women by just adjusting your attitude or looking at the situation in a different way. There's no magic realization out there that will make you confident overnight. If there was you'd have known it by the time you were fourteen and this article wouldn't exist. Anxiety isn't rational and can't be thought away. You have to actually force yourself to approach women enough times that you get used to it. You may 'know' that rejection is harmless, but you can't just read that not to be afraid. You have to experience it yourself and feel that it doesn't hurt you. The advice below comes from this perspective.

There's a ton of other advice out there on how to get used to approaching women. Here's the plan I came up with back in the day and which worked for me:

Plan

For the next month or so try to talk to a few girls every day.

That's pretty vague and unhelpful so we'll make it a bit more systematic:

The first thing we'll do is add in a reward/motivational system of sorts to push you out the door. What you have to do is pick some sort of activity that you like doing every day. If you don't talk to any girls that day you don't get to do the activity. Some examples would be:

Using the computer
Playing on the Internet
Playing a specific game
Playing with yourself
Watching T.V.
If you pick the right thing, it will exert a surprising amount of control. You'll be glad to get the talking with girls thing over with so you can get your 'reward'. This is a key to my advice. The 'reward' helps force you to get out there when you otherwise wouldn't.

The second thing to do is start with the easiest stuff and work your way up. For many guys straight-up approaching a strange girl is too difficult to do right off the bat, but if they build up to it over a week or two it's possible. Set yourself some realistic goals each day, then gradually increase their difficulty as you get more comfortable.

The last thing you have going for you is momentum. By talking to girls every day you get more used to it and can build on your gains. If you only tried to chat up girls one day of the week you'd get 'out of shape' and start from scratch the next week.

Will doing this 'cure' you? Nah, but if you've never been able to get up the nerve to approach a cute chick you'd like to talk to this is a good framework from which to do it. Worked for me.

Work out the personalized details of the 'plan' yourself and do it for about a month or so and you'll be in good shape. No reason to keep going after that. Life should be a bit different afterwards.

Example Progression

Here's a possible list of Least Scary to Most Scary scenarios. You should figure one out that works for you. The earlier items on this list don't even involve women you're interested in. Often the problem isn't just that you're uncomfortable with approaching strange women, but strangers in general.

Ask a nice old lady for the time or a quick innocuous question (i.e., for directions)
Ask a middle aged women for the time or a question
Try to have a quick chat with a much older woman
Ask a woman who's a bit older than you for the time or a question
Ask a non-intimidating woman your age for the time or a question
Ask a half-decent looking woman for the time or or a question
Ask an attractive woman for the time or a question
Go into a store and chat to a non-intimidating clerk
Go into a store and chat to a good-looking clerk
Ask a guy a quick question in a bar (try talking to guys in bars before talking to women)
Try to have a conversation with a guy in a bar
Go up to a non-intimidating girl in a bar and ask a quick question
that could lead to a conversation but just as easily would allow you to leave after getting an answer ("What's that you're drinking?")
Go up to a decent looking girl in a bar and ask a quick question
Go up to a hot chick in a bar and ask a quick question
Make a quick friendly/witty comment to a non-intimidating girl then leave after if you want
Make a quick friendly/witty comment to a decent looking girl then leave after if you want
Make a quick friendly/witty comment to an attractive girl then leave after if you want
Try to have a quick conversation with non-intimidating girl
Try to have a quick chat to a decent looking girl
Try to have a quick chat with a good looking girl
You'll notice that the earlier scenarios involve having a pretext or talking to people who have to talk with you. You may be able to do these these fairly easily. Things get noticeably harder when you have to straight-up go up a strange girl and try to talk to her. Even with the factors in place to make this easier, it will take some willpower.

Some more points about the plan, or sometimes just approaching chicks in general

This is not about picking up chicks

All I'm outlining is a systematic way to get over your discomfort and nerves when talking to girls.
Don't worry about the rest of your 'game' for now.
Don't worry about getting rejected. As long as you pushed through the 'barrier' and managed to talk to the girl it doesn't matter how she reacts.
However, towards the end of the month, you could very well end up chatting to a chick that you hit it off with. This is particularly likely if you're already pretty attractive to girls and just had a problem with approaching them.
Expect to puss out at times

Don't beat yourself up if you puss out, expect it and plan ahead to account for it.
One thing is to give yourself lots of time to get over your nerves. For example if you go out to a bar with the intention of chatting to a few girls that night, you may feel nervous at first. But if you give yourself half an hour to calm down, you may finally be able to work up the nerve to approach someone.
If you do puss out, don't get down on yourself or rationalize it away ("Oh, those chicks weren't hot enough to talk to...yeah...that's it"). Just acknowledge it and do better next time.
Structure the situation so it forces your hand. The whole daily reward structure helps here. You can also do other things. You could tell yourself that you only have fifteen minutes to talk to a girl that day or you automatically fail and miss out on your reward. Or talk so much shit to your buddies about how you're going to mack on girls that night that you have to go through with it.
If you feel stuck at a certain point in the progression (e.g., it's easy enough to chat to a store employee, but you can't bring yourself to go up a girl in a bar) see if you can't break it down into further sub-scenarios and then work through those.
Do whatever you can to make things easier for yourself

Although this will be difficult at times, the idea is not to be masochistic. If there are any short cuts you can take that will make it easier for you to approach women and fulfill your daily goals, you should take them.
If you go out to a bar, go with a friend if you can. It's easier than going out alone.
If a few drinks will give you some courage then have them. Plenty of guys who get laid owe some part of their success to getting loaded first. This isn't guaranteed to give you balls though. Go to any bar and you'll see scores of guys standing around having 'one more drink' in the hopes that they'll finally get buzzed enough to be able to talk to girls. What often happens is they just end up drinking themselves into a sloppy oblivion.
Feel free to loosen your criteria for what certain things mean. Define things like 'chat to a decent looking girl' in such a way that you can do it.
Talking to other people in the day will get you in a more sociable frame of mind and make it easier for you to eventually talk to chicks.
If you have a much easier time talking to girls in some situations (e.g., parties) rather than others (e.g., grocery store), then talk to all of them in the easier situation. However, you may want to try making a few approaches in the scarier situation if learning to do so is important for you.
Talking to strange women isn't as inappropriate as it can feel at first

If you've never interacted with someone in a certain way before, you may have a strong feeling that to do so would be completely inappropriate and offensive.

Ignore these thoughts. People approach women in bars all the time. People strike up conversations with people they don't know all the time as well. Some things are more rare than others (trying to meet women at a bookstore is less common than doing so at a bar), but they're still within the realm of possibility.

Be as physically and socially presentable as you can

If you currently have poor grooming, or come off as really socially awkward or creepy you should put off this exercise until you get those things handled.

You shouldn't be thinking too much about meeting women if you don't have the barebones social basics handled. Meeting a woman is really just socially interacting with another person up to a certain standard. If you can't meet that standard you should poke around the rest of this site first.

月饼早在中秋几天前就寄回了家。中秋也只是3天假期，回去了又可以如何？...

中秋放假，开始想着还是不回去吧，时间仓促，不如留在珠海找点其他事情玩玩。然而中秋前一天，终于决定还是回家过这个中秋。我知道每一次回家，都是一样。3个小时的车程，很近。我的家很大，家人买的地，别墅的设计，4层，很舒服，很温馨，然而每一次回去我却觉得很陌生。老妈总是说我很少打电话回家，想想也是...回家，老爸老妈很高兴，通常开场白也只有那一句：“仔啊，做乜又瘦了？”，然后我敷衍一两句，接下来老妈就会说：“我刚煲了参汤，放好东西就下来喝吧。”我把行李拿上3楼自己的房间，偌大的房间，很空荡，似乎很长时间没有人住了。放好行李，走进比我在珠海租的房间还大的冲凉房...此时老妈会在一楼喊我下去吃饭。

饭桌上，老爸会问我关于工作的事情，更通常的他会说公务员如何好，你看某某某在某某某海关，质检，税局之类的，福利多好多好...因为他一辈子的工作都是事业单位的领导...而老妈似乎更关心我的感情生活，告诉我某某某的儿子女儿几个月大啦，问问我有没有喜欢的女孩子，长得怎么样？哪里人？多大了？什么时候带回家给她老人家看看之类的，我也只是敷衍他们，通常我会回答“嗯，公务员是很好，不错（我还真不想考）；老妈子，你个仔已经发育完善啦，受到男性荷尔蒙的影响，当然有喜欢的女孩子啦，但是她们不喜欢我也没有办法啊，这个责任在你们身上啊，怎么不把我生得更帅一点呢？”

饭后，老爸通常会递给我一根烟。这个很有感触，老爸递烟给儿子，这种“危害”健康的行为是从上一年开始的...我当时很震撼，只是感到眼前这个男人是真的老了，而他的儿子是真的已经长大了吗？这两年我都在思考是否已经长大这个问题，然后得出结论，我适应了这个社会，却迷失了自我...为了证明他的儿子已经长大，这次换我递烟给眼前这个养我20多年的男人...

才刚吃完饭，手机却响了。是高中时候的死党，说了两句便挂了线：“晚上9点东都会V8间，有很多靓女介绍给你认识，记得准时。”。说起这个死党，还真的是死党，认识N年，每次见面我们都是用“贱人”互相称呼，说起这个贱人，我很佩服他，身边总是那么多美女相伴；更令我佩服他的是他辞去了万元月薪的工作，收拾行李回了家开手机专卖店自己做老板。这边电话刚挂，另一个电话便响起：“喂靓仔，晚上9点半到球会club，大家都回来了，记得来吧。”。每次回家，心里想的这一次回来一定要多点时间在家，然而每一次回去的大部分时间却都是在外面应酬朋友，通常都是三更半夜回家，第二天中午起床，然后吃中午饭再出去，再回来吃晚饭，再出去，然后三更半夜回家...

这次回家过中秋，只是两天晚上，于是开始了“赶场”的夜生活。首先，去高中死党那边赴会。进门，“你个贱人什么时候回来的？怎么不叫我去接你啊？”...果然，他带了几个美女来，据说是他的前几任女朋友，每个都是大美女，现在单身。记得高中时候这个贱人很帅，跳舞很厉害，当时很多美女fans，还有就是那时候和这个贱人晚自修到凌晨才骑自行车回家，说说笑笑，宵夜，晚晚如此，为的只是考上大学。而后来我们两个也都进入了大学。这些陈年往事，也只有当事人才值得回忆，无忧无虑，什么都不用想，只需好好学习将来考上大学。这个贱人现在确实改变了许多，我说的改变不是他的性格，而是他的身形，现在是一副老板相，我为什么就胖不了？这...也许是个迷吧。

喝酒，大话骰...夜生活就是如此。这只是一种形式罢了，主要的是提供了朋友相聚的方式。酒，喝了很多；歌，也走音了许多...不影响心情，只是觉得大家还是好兄弟就足够了。10点，我赶过去另外一场，球会club，也是高中同学，都是高三时候的。上个月才见过他们，当时他们相约到珠海这边，那晚在珠海很疯狂，我是醉了。其中一个朋友通知大家今年中秋一定要回家，一醉方休，结果他中秋没有回来，其他的都回了...简直人渣！不过这个场就没有在那个贱人那里好玩，原因很简单，这边竟然是全男宴...所以我坐了一会就离开，赶往第三个场。第三个场是我小学时候一位住我对面的女孩子，现在英国念书，现在放假回来，晚上约了一班朋友在悦华酒店饮茶。也没有坐很长时间，最后还是回去那个贱人那里继续饮酒唱K...接近凌晨，第四场的朋友朋友已经催我很多次：“来了没有，快点啊，帮我喝酒，我快不行了，4个女人欺负我一个，快来救命！”我确实想去救他，然而我已经不行了...

回家，每次的回家都是这样，晚晚如此...

朋友，不是天天可以见，然而，就是那些不是天天见的朋友在想起你的时候还可以一起谈心，一起饮酒。这比有些人好很多了，只是想在中秋打个电话问候，却不接，也没有回复...或许，这就是生活。

    在广东西部地区居住着一群机智、勇敢、温柔、帅气、善良的男人——阳春男人。
    阳春男人凭借他们那俊俏的外表，温柔的内心，已经征服了大江南北的女性，越来越多的女生将拜倒在阳春男人的牛仔裤下，我们的目标就是：冲出亚洲，走向世界！
    人们常说中部地区男人性格细腻，对女人更是呵护有加，但身材似乎缺少那么点男子汉的气概；北方男人则高大威猛，男人味十足，却不懂得去倾听女人的心声。而位于广东阳春的男人弃其糟粕，取其精华，将一个完美男人的形象体现得淋漓尽致。
    如果你现在还没有男朋友，那么你得抓紧找一个阳春男友。机不可失，时不再来。在众多的阳春男人中总有一款会适合你的！
    如果你现在有男朋友但不是阳春男人，那么你现在可以毫不犹豫的跟他提出分手的要求。
    如果你现在男朋友就是阳春男人，那么你在庆幸自己得到一件抢手货的同时，是不是也应该提高警惕，小心被挖墙脚啊！
    天下最好的男人在中国，中国最好的男人在阳春！今年过节不嫁人，要嫁就嫁阳春人！

... ...最后一句：我也是阳春人... _!!

Your love is magical, that's how I feel. But I have not the words here to explain. Gone is the grace for the expressions of passion. But there are words and words of ways to explain to tell you how I feel. But I am speechless, that's how you make me feel. Though I am with you, I am far away and nothing is for real.

When I am with you, I am lost for words. I don't know what to say. My head's spinning like a carousel, so silently I pray. Helpless and hopeless, that is how I feel inside. Nothing's real, but all is possible if God is on my side.

When I am with you, You are in the light where you cannot be found. It is as though you are standing in the place called Hallowed Ground. I'll go anywhere and do anything just to touch your face. There's no mountain high I cannot climb. I am humbled in your grace!

Your love is magical, that's how I feel. But in your presence I am lost for words. Words like, I love you.

人人都说锋少生活得很容易
好像什么都是天生就拥有的
很多东西都得到得很容易
金钱女人事业 （我也这么认为）
实在太容易了
学习也是很容易就考上大学 （我也一样...）
工作也是很容易就月入过万 （你条粉肠还不是老说我日日过千，月月过万...实际月光...）
美女也是很容易就泡到手 （峰哥果然系情圣）
干什么都轻松
每晚喝酒，夜夜笙歌，晚晚醉，日日夜归 （怪不得你已经是个肥仔了，以前那个风靡万千少女的廖峰哪里去了？）
天天睡到中午 （你厉害）
生活过的很容易而且放纵
老一辈人会说这孩子没有受过挫折 （同感）
年轻一辈会说这鸟人真TMD好运 （同感）
来的太易，却不大懂珍惜 （我也一样）
这是他们给我的评语 （都差不多啦，现在的年轻人，哎...）
可是有多少人知道
上学的时候，我六点起床早读，中午一小时吃饭然后继续看书，晚修后学习到晚上十二点睡觉每天循环？别人在唱歌娱乐打球的时候我还在教室看我的习题。 （记得高二高三晚晚都是和你班人渣在教室晚自修到凌晨才回家...）
刚工作的时候在温度达到40度的车间里汗流浃背的搬纸张，打杂，后来在深圳工作，深圳录得最高气温的那日我一个人拖着个几公斤重的大公文包步行一整天，衬衫基本上从来没有干过，回到宿舍躺下才知道自己已经中暑，却第二天天没亮就再继续出发去寻访客户。
做生意，开张那天晚上凌晨五点回到家睡下，第二天六点就已经穿戴好衣服，准备出门，饭是没有时间回去吃的，连续十多小时站着没有坐过，那天晚上结束营业后声音已经沙哑到自己都听不到，还是坚持盘点和开会到凌晨才回到家…… （在深圳的日子，不要再提...）
你们说我生活过得很容易
说我很幸运
为什么我一点自觉都没有
我是一个不懂对比的人还是我自己太张扬？ （哈哈哈，张扬了点...）
不知道
不过我一直都知道
生活其实不容易
假如容易
也只是因为我曾经认真对待过
从来
没有放弃过 （对！大家加油）

有些人，不再见了，从你的世界消失。
而有些人，却依旧清晰。
想说的，曾经都说过。
在倾诉的瞬间，
我看见彼此的灵魂，冷漠而疏离地观望着。
我想，我们都是始终不知道怎样去做才是对的人！
始终不明白什么才是自己所要的人。

有一些往事连绵不绝的感情曲线，被时光舞步所乱，如今仍刻骨铭心的，
可能只是咖啡里不断冒出的热气，或那个秋天特别潮湿的温度。
相遇，离别，隐忍，疼痛，一闪而逝，刻骨铭心，错过，变幻无常。
一个词语就是一个故事。
怎样都有意义，怎样都没有意义。
片段。断片。
记得。回忆。然后遗忘。

中国足球是个好样本

　　关于中国运动，有一个很大的误会，我称之为「可口可乐迷思」。改革开放初期，许多外国大企业都闻到了空气中传来一丝人民币的气味，他们觉得中国是全球市场最后一块，也是最大的一块处女地。那时流行用可乐做譬喻，他们说：「十亿人呀！只要有十分一爱喝可乐，一天就能卖掉一亿罐了」。
　　后来他们才发现要把这么庞大的人口变成他们理想中的消费者，要打进这片经济世界中的亚马逊，原来是件多么困难的事。必须斩荆披棘，适应水土，耐心地等待时机的成熟和条件的具足，中国的人口才能成为一个有意义的数字。
　　同样地，我们也千万不能相信中国既然有十三亿人口，就一定能找出十一个人组成「第一流足球队」这类鬼话。人口数字有多少，和某项运动的表现好不好实在是两码事。牙买加的人口有多少？为甚么它能称霸短跑赛道？立陶宛的面积比北京大很多吗？怎么就能变成欧洲篮球劲旅呢？按照「可口可乐迷思」的逻辑，应该整个欧洲加起来派一支球队也赢不了中国才对呀，为甚么光是一个比利时就能叫中国足球丢脸丢到家呢？
　　中国男子足球不只是中国体育界的奇耻大辱，还是世界体坛的一道谜题。国足的人均收入可能是所有项目里头最高的，偏偏他们的表现是最烂的。当体操选手一个个为中国夺取荣誉同时还要为生活精打细算的时候，那帮球员却一方面坐享车宅，另一方面把球踢到了亚洲三流的水平。二十多年来，中国足球的成绩和球员的收入几乎呈现了反向发展的态势。
　　其实它的问题恰巧也折射出了中国社会面对的困境。中国足球是中国所有体育项目里头市场化程度最高的，但市场不只救不了它，反而还使它更加证明了「举国体制」的优势。如果左派用这个案例说明市场并非万能的话，右派也可以反过来说那是因为中国职业足球的发展根本还不够市场化，没有建起完善的市场机制，所以才变得贪腐横行、黑幕重重。中国足球或许是中国球迷心上的伤口，但它却是个了解中国现况的好样本。难怪有回听一个外国教授说，任何一个关心中国发展问题的学者，都能透过它找到中国的矛盾与瞹眛。
**本人忝为佛教徒，近日却在电视节目中因为一时激愤，失却正念，粗言辱骂了足协主席谢亚龙先生，不只犯了妄语戒，更伤害了谢先生和他的家人，谨此向他致上诚挚的歉意。同时我也希望年轻的读者和观众在我身上看到教训。此等劣行，实不足法。
　　然而，我依然以为谢先生要求国家女足成员做检讨，批评她们「三无」的做法是非常不恰当的。女足的拼搏精神，我辈球迷有目共睹，真不知道谢先生以何标准说她们没有斗志？相反地，男足在对比利时的那场赛事里明明犯了极不君子的错误，谢先生竟然还称赞他们够拼搏，他的判断为什么会和我们差这么远呢？
　　平心而论，中国足球走到今天这个地步，实在不是谢先生一个人的错。可是当年国家请他担当舵手之职，难道不就是为了痛改沉痾，为我国足树立新风吗？几年下来，谢先生做出了什么成绩呢？就算当下的成积不行，起码也要给出一套令人信服令人可以期待的长远方案吧？如果两样都没有，我觉得谢先生就应该背起责任，引咎辞职了。假如他能做到这一点，那么我不单要向他道歉，更要为他的勇气和承担而鼓掌喝采。